Saturday

 I do lots of laundry.  It was at least warm so dried easy.  Mostly Kurt's stuff the first load.  Then I go to see dad and Violet.  He is doing much better.  No more ranting about dying.

I start on the paperwork.  It is so weird to see the WHOLE life of paperwork.  Found the divorce papers from Cindy Ko, 1977 about and the divorce papers of Violet Ko.  And the marriage certificate of dad and Violet.  And many letters from Warren and Mimi to dad.

Seems like a peeping tom and a voyeur 

I rode my bike around and then went for a 5K run.

KR went surfing first, then farmers market.  We got lots of good corn and some strawberry and grapes.  We took the food over to dad and Violet and had dinner together  It was very nice.

So weird to see him living there,

I am going to print a bunch of pictures so he knows that he can live there.  He keeps asking if I am the owner and if KR and I live together,  So many things that he cannot remember.

I hope Violet works out as a caregiver.  She has debt from her credit card bills for gambling.  I just don't get that but it is very bad for many Chinese she says.

I opened a bag of dad's sheets and they were so so dirty from not washing that I threw them away.  After cleaning the BBQ.  

I cooked Mark's fish, the 25 pound yellowtail he got.  It was very delicious

We brought dinner over to dad's and had dinner there.  Seafood KR cooked, salad, corn off the cob, rice and noodles,  It was very good.  Violet put dad to bed and went home