Sunday, May 22, 2022

Dad comes home and KR is mad mad and mad

 So what is the scoop?

Violet calls and said the hospital said that dad will be released today.  So I head over to the  condo with James and KR after we walk Angel at the beach.  We started cleaning and trying to get the place ready for the hospital bed that is coming.  Violet thinks we should have it as it is too hard to get dad to move around.  I tried to get the drawers sorted too so we can place pads and diapers like we did for Daddy George.  James was working on all the drawers in the back and organizing the clothes too so that the easy pull up type of pants can be used.

I asked KR to put the hand rails on the bidet toilet.  I thought we had it on their  toilet and it turns out won't fit.  He started saying that his back was hurting and was upset and didn't want to do anymore after an hour.  He left with Angel.

We stayed until the bed was delivered and then I went to the  hospital to pick up dad.

He was ready to go.  We got him home and James helped loading him into the bed.  He was really t ired from the car travel.

I got him settled and went to pick up diapers and pads from Freda as the items will be delivered Monday by Cesar's company.  Eternally Yours Hospice.  I came back and Violet left.  

I went home and KR was just absolutely MAD MAD AND MAD.  He said I was  not appreciative enough of his help.  WHAT?  With my dad coming  out of the hospital and into hospice and  I AM SUPPOSE TO BE APPRECIATIVE of his help?  Saying Thank you over and  over?

So we  just didn't talk.  I tried to apologize, and I don't know why I did.  Just to keep peace I guess.  I spent the night at dad's and did a load of laundry.  I started washing all his shirts and pants and jackets to donate.

I went home for the tomahawk steak that I bought today.  James wanted meat and they had them at Ralphs.  At 14 dollars  a pound, the one steak was 48 bucks !!!

I  am so so tired.  Dad kept making weird noises during the night.  I finally sleep.  

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